FYI, I did make very minor edits for clarity. This is painful to click "Publish," but I believe it's necessary to hear KF's perspective and experiences.
I don't know KF personally, but I'm praying for him for healing, and that God will bring people into his life to speak about God using a different language--the language of love and radical forgiveness offered through Jesus Christ.
If we look at how Jesus handled being treated unjustly, we have a model for how we can react--with love and grace.
grace - n. - unmerited favorKF...I'm sorry you went through all this.